Everyone needs to learn the secret to success in life. Whether it's in your career or in your personal life, we all want that. The real question is: How are we to get this?
The answer is simple: You have to fail, and often you have to fail. You have to learn from every failure everything that is there. That is so simple.
But, each time you fail, you should be sure to fail differently. Here are some faults you need to experience to be successful in life:
A serious relationship which failed
Relationships fail all the time, it's not our fault most of the time. However, once you decide to screw up a fantastic one, you'll never understand a good relationship the way you should understand it.
Brush yourself off and move on with your life is easier when the other person was clearly to blame for that. However, if you only have to blame yourself, you will learn lessons which stick with you. And that includes knowing that you were the one who messed things up. But that is another story.
Failed amitiy
It takes time to understand and appreciate the connections that you have in your life with different people. Not only are the romantic ones teaching you important lessons in life but also the relationships you have with your friends.
Just as toxic romantic relationships occur, so too are toxic friendships. Once you experience a fall-out with a friend, you get a little better understanding of yourself, and the life you hope to lead.
failed career
If you still hold down the first job you've ever had, there's an approximate 99 percent chance you 're not doing what you should be doing. You may be that one-in-a-million statistic that's got lucky, but most people need to go through some trial and mistake. Usually it's less about finding out what you want to do, and more about what the world has to offer and what you might bring to it.
no money or bank balance
If in your life you have never been broken, you will never understand the importance of the money. It's all inappropriate. Of course, you can conceptually understand it, but you will never know how it feels to figure out how to score a free meal.
Who are you Thomas Edison? He is the guy who even after the 100th failure kept going. Like me, I 'm sure you heard the story several times. What did you take from that, though?
The light bulb invention has become a milestone in history. He was interviewed afterward. After failing more than 100 times, one reporter asked him what led to your success?
His response was :
Who told you I failed in those 100 attempts? In fact I learned over 100 ways of not making a light bulb.
That is the optimistic attitude that you will benefit from when you struggle. Failure can make you stronger, it only depends on the way you think. Every mountain you see as conquerable. Any challenge, as much as possible. You see yourself as an expert now, no matter how many times you have failed, because you have an uncompromising belief that you are going to succeed.
When you excel, who cares about your failures? No one. Your failings have been forgotten. I'm sure you heard about the Wright brothers who were credited with inventing the aircraft.
But have you heard about Samuel Langley Pierpont? Before hears of that name? I wonder that anyone has. He was also the other person trying to build the aircraft at the same time as the brothers Wright were
He really had a whole lot of encouragement. Langley had acquired some reputation as an astronomer within the academic community which earned him many prestigious and high-ranking positions.He was Smithsonian institution director. He had been an assistant at the Observatory of Harvard College and professor of mathematics at the Naval Academy of the USA.Langley had connected very well. Some of the most powerful men in government and business included his friends including Andrew Carnegie and Alexander Graham Bell.He was extremely well funded too. In 1901, the Secretary of War, the forerunner of the Defense Department, had given him $50,000 for the project.Everywhere, The New York Times followed him. He had gathered some of the brightest minds of the time to work on the project.
Langley was the first person to invent the flying machine. After his invention he wished to have gained the kind of fame men like Thomas Edison.Well, he was completely overworked, thought out, and maneuvered by two brothers who were rich in the most important attribute of all, despite their modest resources.